Dear Stop It Now!,
My hubby often touches all of our 3 and 6 year old daughters with techniques that I've found gently inappropriate - e.g. taking down the 3 year-old's pants therefore we can see the girl bottom, or kissing the girl base whenever she simply requires help taking straight down the girl night-time diaper to utilize the bathroom . in the morning; or keeping the 6 year old across their lap in an armchair and stroking the girl lower body from top to bottom (just on the outside).
Therefore we're maybe not writing about everything obviously intimate, however it creates me personally feeling uneasy, and I also become i willn't disregard my personal gut reaction, even though it appears as though an overreaction. I am not sure just how (or whether) to talk about it to your, or what you should say to my personal daughters to simply help shield them.
Dear Involved Mother,
Anytime a grown-up has any worry – whether or not it’s an abdomen feeling, an observance or any other skills – with another adult’s behaviors with kids, it will always be wise to explore it.